Mayraki Silky Smooth Proactive Hair Repairing Treatment

I recently tried the Silky Smooth Proactive Hair Repairing Treatment by Mayraki and I love it! My hair instantly felt so much softer and healthier. I especially like this brand because it is all natural!

Please note: I was gifted this product in exchange for an honest review.

I have very long, curly hair that is extremely difficult to brush through. After leaving the treatment in for 15 minutes before shampooing it, I was able to brush through it with ease! It came with a lovely wooden paddle brush. It’s great and is my new post shower brush.

I have also left my hair unbrushed after the treatment to dry naturally. My curls looked great without adding any other product and I was able to finger comb through my crazy curls.

My hair feels silky smooth and healthy, even after the first use. I love that their products are sulfate-free, paraben-free and silicone-free as well as 100% vegan. Their treatment contains essential nutrients and herbs such as Natural Collagen Amino Acids, Camellia Reticulata Seed Oil Ginkgo Biloba leaf extract, Aloe Barbadensis Extract, Macadamia Ternifolia Extract, Rosa Rugosa Flower Extract, and Hydrolyzed Wheat Protein.

It is hard to find all-natural products that actually work! I feel and see the difference and I am so glad I found this natural hair treatment. I highly recommend Mayraki Silky Smooth Proactive Hair Repairing Treatment

Be sure to check out all of their amazing natural hair products and get 20% off their entire site with my special promo code: JESSICA20


Miku Baby Monitor Review

The Miku is known as the genius of all baby monitors and for good reason. It is a stylish and sleek wifi monitor that does it all from reading the temperature and humidity in the room to tracking baby’s breathing and movement patterns.

Please note: I was gifted a Miku Baby monitor in exchange for an honest review. This post contains an affiliate link which I may receive a commission from if you click and purchase this product from the link.

Monitors have come a long way from when I was a baby and my parents used the one way radio to hear into my nursery. With Miku’s wifi technology, not only do we get a beautiful HD picture but we see everything right from our smartphones. Even the night vision picture quality is excellent.

On top of monitoring baby’s sound and movements, another really unique and advanced feature is the devices ability to track the baby’s breathing patterns. If you’re a parent, I’m sure you have had the urge to check on your little one to see if their still breathing. Their tiny chest movements are so hard to see at times which can get any new mom or dad worried and running into take a closer look. As a second time parent, I’m a little less frantic this time around but it’s nice to have that piece of mind.

From the app you see the live camera view as well as the baby’s current activity with everything from baby’s movement to breathing patterns. We get push notifications sent to our phone when baby is fussing or anything is out of the ordinary including temperature and humidity in the room. It has no distance limit and can be viewed anywhere in the world! You can also record precious moments ans save photos and videos which are automatically stored via cloud for 30 days at no extra charge.

Another cool feature that we love is the ability to play white noise and lullabies for your baby right from the app. The sound quality is excellent.

The Miku was pretty easy to install (according to my husband) and the app was a breeze to download and set up. The only thing that took awhile was downloading the firmware with the most updated version of the app which is done automatically as part of the app setup. Keep in mind that anyone watching baby such as family, babysitters etc.. will have to download the app as well.

The device gets mounted right above the crib which gives the perfect birds eye view of baby. I love this because our last monitor was hooked onto the side of the crib which didn’t give us a great view of the entire crib. As our daughter got older, she would grab the monitor and rip it off. We often would lose sight or her and would then have to sneak in and try to adjust the position of the camera in hopes of not waking her up in the process. You can also set the Miku camera on any flat surface such as a shelf if you’d prefer not to mount it.

The Miku is a little on the pricey side. However, when you compare this product to other top of the line monitors on the market with comparable features, it’s fairly priced. I personally think it’s worth the investment considering everything you get.

Final verdict:

All in all, after testing it out we are very satisfied with the Miku baby monitor and can’t wait to start using it daily when our youngest is finally sleeping in her nursery at night. We have tested it out over the last week during nap times and we absolutely love it. If you’re interested in the Miku you can purchase it on Amazon. I highly recommend it and give it a 5 star rating!

A Day In Toddler Life During Quarantine


Spending the last few weeks at home with a toddler having to quarantine during the COVID-19 pandemic has helped me learn a thing or two. It’s not about having a strict schedule to follow or scratching everything off your do list. It’s about being present in the moment. I do believe that some structure is important but I am a firm believer that children learn best through play and doing their own thing. A book I recently read and loved “The Danish Way of Parenting” best explains this concept. After all, Danes are statistically the happiest people on earth so they must know a thing or two about raising capable, confident children. You can find this amazing book on Amazon. That being said, a typical day in the life with my almost two year during these crazy times looks a little something like this:

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Sleep Training

Sleep – It’s so important for our babes to get the well deserved rest their little bodies and brains need to thrive and grow. As a first time mom, I’ve always valued the importance of her sleep. I have been borderline crazy about my daughters naps and making sure she’s getting enough rest throughout the day and night.

Although we’ve been pretty lucky with her sleep, there were many times throughout her first year of life that I considered making an appointment with a professional for some guidance. I’ve read many books and have done a ton of research on sleep habits for babies. From sleep training techniques to co-sleeping and everything in between. I started off with following the natural baby sleep solution which worked extremely well for us from the age of 2 to 7 months. I tracked her natural 90 minute sleep cycles and she followed the N.A.P.S plan.

N – Note the time baby wakes up from a complete nap

A – Add 90 minutes (or 3, 4.5 hours etc..)

P – Play

S – Soothe your baby to sleep

For more on the N.AP.S technique, check out the book: The Natural Baby Sleep Solution

Other than waking up 1 to 2 times night for a 5 minute feed then straight back to bed, we were all sleeping very well. At that time I was still nursing her to bed at night as well as for naps. As the months passed Valentina started waking up more often at night and it was affecting everyone’s sleep. I did more research on the topic and I learned that nursing to sleep had to come to an end since that’s what was causing her to wake up crying. Whether it be nursing or rocking or using any prop to help baby fall asleep such as a soother, if they can’t self soothe, they will wake up in between sleep cycles looking for that comforting thing that helped them fall asleep in the first place. So, we decided to try out some sleeping training techniques. Our daughter was very stubborn and we had a hard time listening to her cry because she would cry HARD. She had also learned to pull herself up to a standing position at that time and she didn’t know how to get back down so that made things even harder. After several attempts we finally managed to sleep train her. We created a solid bedtime routine and stuck to it religiously every night. She was finally going down to sleep without crying and sleeping (almost) through the night at 9 months.. which is pretty late as this can be done much earlier between 4 and 6 months. However, she still woke up for an early morning feed. I thought the best thing to do about these 5am wakes up was to give her what she wanted and nurse her back to sleep so we could all get another hour or two of shut eye since letting her cry didn’t seem to be working.

It took a little longer for naps but we got there too. No props to get her down and she was having two decent naps per day at 9 months old. I soon learned that sleep habits are always changing and can easily be disrupted.

Upon our return from a recent trip to Italy for 2.5 weeks, we were faced with a serious relapse in my daughter’s sleeping habits. I resorted back to nursing her to sleep for naps as that seemed to be the only way she’d go down for me after having done that on vacation. Man do I ever wish I had consulted with a sleep coach before making that decision. Not only was she waking up at all hours of the night while on vacation due to this but coming back from vaca was a nightmare! She fought her naps sooo hard for about a month. It took an average of 30 minutes of crying anytime I’d put her down for a nap. I thought it must be time to go down to one nap, even though all my research said the average baby doesn’t give up their second nap until around 18 months. I tried that and it only made the situation worse. I could tell she was even more tired than before! It was about one month after returning from our trip when my daughter was about to have her first birthday party. After having dealt with a month of hell going down for naps, I started looking into booking with a sleep consultant. I had been following Antea for awhile and heard from friends that worked with her that had great success. Just my luck, she was doing a giveaway in celebration of her first year in business. I entered and guess what? I actually won! That just goes to show you should enter those Instagram contests and you might just get lucky!! I was gifted a more than sleep consultation with her. This was life changing. After filling out a detailed questionnaire that helped Antea better understand Valentina’s sleep situation we had a phone consultation where she asked me further questions to know exactly what issues we were having and what our goal was with her sleep. Having filled out the questionnaire prior to the call, we discussed the action plan and what changes I was to make to her schedule and why. I asked about a million other questions regarding nursing, going back to work and pretty much everything I had concerns about in these departments like how long should let the baby cry? How many hours of sleep does she need per day? How long can her awake periods be at this age?

After hanging up the phone, I was so excited and pumped to get started and felt like I finally had that support I needed. As a personal trainer and coach, I understand the value and importance of having that support system as well as the accountability.

That Monday, I started the game plan. She had suggested subtle changes to Valentina’s sleep schedule as well as changes to her awake schedule such as feeding and play time which were all meant to help me hit her sweet spots for naps. The first day involved some crying of course but by day 2, Valentina was going down for naps within a couple of minutes!! No boob, no rocking, straight into the crib!! I was amazed. I literally didn’t think that was even possible!! Then, by the third day, she went from waking up at 5am to sleeping until 7am! 12 full hours through the night without a feed. She is finally getting about 14 hours total per day, she doesn’t even cry going down for her naps or bedtime and everyone is well rested and happy!

Antea followed up with me daily to check in and see how everything was going. I couldn’t believe that after a few days her sleep was back on track and better than ever! There have been a couple of relapses where she fought her naptime but I contacted Antea she helped me make subtle adjustments which did the trick. She’s been so supportive and has been so helpful by answering my questions promptly and encouraging me to turn to her whenever I have any more questions. She genuinely cares about our well being and wants to help any way she can!

Since getting guidance from Antea, I’ve recommended her to other mama friends who are just as ecstatic about their speedy results as we are.

I write this blog post today because I want to share with other moms that are wondering if they should invest in this service. My answer I YES, ABSOLUTELY! I know she can help so many other mamas and babies dealing with sleep struggles that can easily be addressed with the right approach and proper guidance with someone with who really cares. Sometimes we just need that cheerleader who is going to motivate us to stick to a plan and not give up!

Here’s more about what Antea does to help other moms:

Antea is a registered nurse, lactation counsellor and sleep coach working with families in Ottawa.


“Becoming a mother myself has changed my perception and given me a better understanding of what families go through. It is an immense transition for most that craves and deserves support and attention. I had my two little guys 18 months apart which was extremely challenging on my relationships with others and mostly with myself. Getting the help and guidance that I needed to overcome my struggles was paramount in becoming not only a better mother, but a better person in general. This has greatly fueled me to guide and educate mamas and families so that they can be empowered to be the best that THEY can be”.

For more information about her services, check out her website and contact her to book your appointment!

Email: antea@themamacoach.ca

Website: https://themamacoach.ca/coaches/antea-corluka/

Instagram: www.instagram.com/anteathemamacoach

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Anteathemamacoach/

Thank you so much Antea for helping our daughter create healthy sleep habits that I know will forever benefit her.

If I could go back in time, I would have called and invested in her services months ago. Sleep is so important not only for baby but for mom and dad too!

Never underestimate the power of a coach.

Going Green! 9 Dangerous Household Items You Should Swap or Eliminate.


Nowadays, we hear the term going green everywhere. It seems to be the “in” thing to do and for good reason. There are many reasons why we should choose to go green. From doing your part to help save our planet to reducing your exposure to chemicals that can have a major impact to your long term health, going green is a no brainer!

For the longest time, I didn’t pay much attention to ingredients and I wasn’t too concerned about them.. until I became a mother. It’s funny how that can make you become more aware and actually start caring about your own health and safety (as well as your littles). After giving birth to my daughter Valentina, I started really paying attention to labels and trying my best to avoid toxic ingredients. I started by buying organic food products for her and then slowly making the switch to organic products for my husband and I as well. A good starting point for which foods you should be buying organic is the dirty dozen and the clean fifteen.

Avoiding packaged and processed foods and going for non GMO products is also a good start.

What took me a little longer to open my eyes up to were the everyday household items we use daily such as deodorant, body lotion, and shampoo/conditioner that we lather ourselves up with day in day out that are filled with funny sounding ingredients such as phtaltates! If you can’t pronounce the word properly, that’s not a good sign!

Here are 9 daily household items you should consider swapping to an organic brand or eliminating all together!

1. Soap – Who would have thought that the innocent bar of soap or hand soap you pump into your hands daily is oozing with artificial dyes, fragrances and toxic foaming agents that can can irritate your skin.

2. Shampoo/Conditioner – From sulphites to phthaltates, you’ll find all sorts of chemicals in your shampoo and conditioner which can actually cause more damage to your hair and to your general health well being.

3. Sunscreen – The dangers of sunscreen have become well known. It’s no wonder most sunscreen brands have been banned from Hawaii because of the damage they are doing to the coral reefs. Can you imagine what they do to our bodies?

4. Deodorant – The big ingredient in deodorants and anti perspirants that we hear about which has been linked directly to cancer is aluminium. Always look for aluminum free deodorants.

5. Body lotion – Ever notice the heavy perfume scent in many lotions? Synthetic fragrances and dyes are not good for us! These chemicals can cause hormone disruption amongst many other health issues. Need I say more?

6. Toothpaste – Yes, even your toothpaste is filled with chemicals such as synthetic detergents, artificial dyes and sweeteners and chemical antibacterial agents to name a few.

7. Cleaning products – I’m sure you can tell by the smell alone that most cleaning products are full of dangerous ingredients. Do you really want your children and pets crawling around on the floor after you’ve just washed it with a cocktail of toxic chemicals!?

Other items you might want to consider eliminating all together that are full of dangerous ingredients are:

8. Dryer sheets/fabric softener – It’s actually scary what goes into this stuff. Ingredients such as carcinogens like chloroform and limonene amongst many other highly toxic ingredients. I would stay away from these at all costs, especially when it comes to babies and children!

9. Air fresheners – Air fresheners including sprays and plug-ins, even those that claim to be organic or green, contain a long list of synthetic chemicals such as carcinogens than can cause asthma and allergies. Watch out for scented candles too!

I personally love essential oils which can be added to dryer balls or used in a diffuser to freshen up your home. They have been used for thousands of years and also provide many health benefits.

Many of the top brands claim to be better for you because they’re infused with oatmeal or whatever other health gimmicks they try throwing at you. However, if you do your research and actually read the ingredients listed and how they affect your body, you’d be shocked. Many of these soulless companies will remove one toxic ingredient that has increased popularity publicly such as parabens for example, only to be replaced with other toxic ingredients hidden in between the lines that they often try and cover up!

Now that we know we should aim to buy clean, chemical free, safe products not only for your own health and safety but also to protect the environment, where do we start? When searching for a company you can trust, it can get confusing. What is actually organic, free of chemicals and safe for our planet and animals? With so many products on the market, it can be hard to find the best, the cleanest and the safest!

You search ends with Green Beaver Company. This Canadian Company makes organic products that are biodegradable, non-animal-tested, GMO-free and vegan both you and your family can safely enjoy everyday. Green Beaver was founded on the belief that humans can live happily and healthily off of the goodness that Mother Nature provides. Simply put, Green Beaver’s philosophy is that healthy and happy is the best way to live.

They make everything from safe sunscreens to aluminum free deodorant and everything in between. I love their multi purpose Castile soap that can be used to clean pretty much anything from kitchen/bathrooms to floors. It can even be used a hand or body wash. I like to put a cap full into my laundry so it comes out smelling fresh (instead of using those lethal dryer sheets)!

They also make baby products such as lotions, soaps and diaper cream that are 100% safe and organic!

If you’re looking to start going green and making a difference for our planet and most importantly your health, I highly recommend you check out the Green Beaver Company. We love them so much over at Movecamp that we have made them our title partner for 2019!

MoveCamp is a free weekly fitness event in Canada whose vision is to make fitness simple, fun and accessible to everyone. Our goal is to fill the mandate of National Health and Fitness Day, to make Canada the fittest nation on earth! I am proud to the Managing Director and Head Coach of this amazing movement. If you live in Ottawa, join us for a free workout on the front lawn of Parliament Hill as well as other Canadian landmarks every Thursday at 12:15pm throughout the summer. We will also be moving our way across the country this year for the first time ever to Montreal and Toronto. For all the details and to get exclusive Green Beaver discounts as well as many other leading health and wellness brands, register at movecamp.ca

Let’s go green together!


Traveling With A Baby

“To my mind, the greatest reward and luxury of travel is to be able to experience everyday things as if for the first time, to be in a position where almost nothing seems familiar.

-Bill Bryson

If I were to tell you that traveling long distances with a baby is a breeze, I’d be lying. Is it worth it though? If you value seeing the world as much as I do, absolutely!

Our daughter Valentina is 11 months old, and she just got back from a 16 day trip exploring Italy with my husband and I. She’s now been on 7 flights all together in her short lifetime. Our first trip was with my hubby’s family when she was 7 months old to Punta Cana. At that age, she wasn’t quite crawling yet and was a lot less mobile so I’d say that trip was much easier. Our most recent trip to Italy was an international flight with two layovers to get to our first destination. At this age, they’re moving around a lot more and are very curious. That alone plus the fact that travel time was much longer (the flight home was 9 hours – 15 hours total travel time with layovers) made things a bit trickier! However, it was worth the trek. We visited 11 cities in 16 days, what an adventure! You know when people say they need a vacation after their vacation? I get that now! Here are a few tips that may help you and your family if you plan on traveling with a baby.

1. Take the red eye flight: If you have the option, fly at night. Especially if you’re traveling a long way. There’s a much better chance your baby will sleep through the flight or for a good portion of it anyway.

2. Request the bassinet: Most airlines require that your baby is under 25-30lbs and is unable to sit up on their own. You can call ahead and request the bassinet, however it’s usually still a first come first serve basis so arrive at the airport nice and early! You may have to pay extra for your seat or your partners seat as the bassinet clips on in the first row where there is more leg room. In my case, the seat upgrade was free with the baby. Every airline and country is different though. If the bassinet isn’t an option for you, you can ask the airline staff if their is a row of seats open or an extra seat available so baby can have some room to move around a bit. I had requested the bassinet so my hubby and I got to sit in the first row coming back from Italy on our 9 hour flight (thank goodness). However, when it came time to bring the bassinet over after take off, they realized that Valentina was too mobile even though she met the weight requirement. Luckily, I found a row of empty seats that we walked over to several times throughout the flight to go play.

3. Bring distractions: It’s definitely a good idea to invest in a few new toys for the plane as well as for your travels to keep the baby occupied and distracted. Simple things usually do the trick so visit the dollar store or bring some different coloured/shaped sensory balls or small board books. Your baby may be happier just playing with an empty water bottle or the string from your sweater anyway. The best way to divert a tantrum is to bust out something new and shiny, even if it’s just a map (which our Valentina loved during car rides abroad). Make sure they don’t eat them though!! If all else fails, start singing their favourite song or play a game to diffuse the situation.

4. Food and snacks: You’re going to need TONS of snacks on hand for the plane as well as your travels. I always tried to get fresh fruit at local markets to keep on hand but you can’t go wrong with baby crackers or good ol’ rice cakes. If your baby is eating solids they’ll likely be eating meals with you but I highly recommend bringing pouched foods with you as well as a backup. I don’t typically use these much anymore but they’re very convenient when traveling if your baby refuses to eat something you offer at a restaurant. Also, delays happen so it’s important to have food available for your baby in these cases. If you’re breastfeeding, that’s obviously going to be very convenient when traveling because you can do it anywhere and you don’t need to worry about bottles etc. If you are feeding your baby formula, a mini kettle can work at a bottle warmer and sanitizer.

5. Book a hotel over Air BnB: We have tried both the hotel living arrangements and Air BnB while on vacation and I must say hotel is a lot more convenient with a baby. Why? They’re a lot more likely to have necessities such a crib, clean towels daily and a restaurant on site where you can order room service (we had to do that a few times when V was exhausted and we couldn’t make it out to dinner). When we were staying at hotels that didn’t have a restaurant the hotel staff were able to give us recommendations to close by restaurants or even call and order food for us.

6. Stroller and baby wearing: I recommend having both a stroller and baby carrier or sling. Having both options when you’re out and about, especially for long periods of time is key!

7. Pack light: Easier said than done! I brought two outfits for each day, which was a bit excessive! I know my daughter though and she gets messy pretty quickly. That’s why I made sure to bring clothing that she could wear twice that go well with anything such as jeans, sweaters and a few good pairs of pants. PJs I made sure she would wear 2 nights. I also brought lots of bibs. Don’t forget a plastic washable bib or two for meals as well. It’s important to pack for any climate. It ended being a little chillier on our trip, so I’m glad I had a a few sweaters and pants even though I mainly anticipated warm weather. I also ended up buying some clothing when we were down there so if you know you’re going to be doing some shopping, keep that in consideration when packing. Also, bring a few different hats to match all of your chosen outfits to protect baby from the sun no matter what the temperature is.

8. Diapers and baby essentials: The great things about diapers and wipes is that you can buy them pretty much anywhere. So, if stuffing your suitcase with 2-3 weeks worth of wipes and diapers is going to make you go over and have to pay a fee for your luggage, you’re much better off bringing less and buying some more wherever you’ll be staying. We brought a double sleeve and two packs of wipes for just over two weeks. We ended up having to buy an extra pack of each for the last few days. As for other baby essentials like lotions, soap/shampoo, and sunscreens, I put my preferred brand of baby products from The Green Beaver Company into travel size bottles (from the dollar store) as I don’t believe that brand is sold in Europe and it can get pretty heavy in your luggage if you bring the full size bottles. I love their products because they’re organic and chemical free. I’m pretty picky about this kind of stuff and would rather not have to look for a different brand if I don’t know what’s in the product and will likely not be able to read labels as easily in a different language.

9. Routine. Let’s be honest. When you’re on vacation, you are completely disrupting babies’ schedule.. and babies like routine! So, my best suggestion is try your best to follow somewhat of a similar schedule in terms of naps, meals and bedtime routine. Naps may have to happen in a stroller, car or perhaps you’ll all take advantage of a nice afternoon siesta like we often did. Your schedule will obviously sway to some degree especially if there’s time change involved but if your baby can know what to expect throughout the day and be well rested, you’ll most definitely reduce crankiness and the risk of meltdowns.

9. Patience: When your baby throws a fit (it’s bound to happen at some point) be patient with them. They’re schedules and usual predictable routines are all out of whack. They’re likely not sleeping quite as long and have busy days exploring outdoors getting plenty of fresh air and fun in the sun which tucker’s them out even more. So, you can’t blame them if they are tired and cranky. Keep in mind, if you stress out or react to their tantrums, you are only adding fuel or the fire. Stay calm and use the distraction strategy such as a their favourite toy or games like peekaboo or hide and seek to avoid making the situation worse.

In conclusion, traveling with an extra human in tow is definitely more challenging. However, the adventures you will have are worth the extra work.

It is never too early to start exploring the world.

Until next time! ✌️


Brownie Energy Bites:

One of my favourite easy snacks to make when I’m craving something sweet has to be energy bites. They are great to grab and go for a quick breakfast, to snack on in between meals, pre or post workout or as a nighttime sweet snack. They are high in protein and fats so a couple of these bite sized balls will keep you satisfied.

You can experiment with different add ins but the base is really the first four ingredients.

Brownie Energy Bites:

•1/2 cup natural peanut butter

(or you can use almond butter)

•1/4 cup honey

•1 cup of ground oats (you don’t have to grind the oats but I like the texture better)

•1/2 cup of almond milk (or milk of choice)

•1 tbsp of cacao powder

•1 tbsp of coconut oil (a must if adding cacao powder)

•1 tbsp of chia seeds

• 1 tbsp of ground flax seed

•1/2 scoop of chocolate protein powder (I use Quattro by Magnum Whey Protein or Genuine Health Vegan Protein for a plant based option)

•pinch of sea salt

Other great add ins: chocolate chips, chopped nuts etc..

Mix all ingredients in one bowl. Refrigerate for 20 mins and then roll into 1 inch balls.


Carbs: 7 grams

Protein: 4 grams

Fats: 8 grams

If you’re looking for a flourless version, I love this one: https://www.texanerin.com/chocolate-peanut-butter-protein-balls/



Self Care for New Moms

Being a mom is a full time job. We are juggling taking care of our little ones and the million tasks that come along with it. From changing diapers to feeding and preparing food, cleaning up toys and the never ending baby dishes, it’s a lot of work! It’s also a very physical job, especially in the first few months when you are potentially pacing the hallways with a fussy baby or rocking them to sleep.

It is all more than worth the effort when you see those heart melting smiles and hear those contagious giggles. Parenthood is the most rewarding job in the world. However, it’s easy to feel drained especially when there’s a good chance your sleeping habits are probably the worst they’ve ever been. Lack of sleep takes a toll on our immune systems and increases cortisol levels. So the last thing you want to do is throw in high intensity exercise which will only increase cortisol levels even more (the bodies stress hormone). Increased cortisol puts our bodies in a catabolic state which eats away at muscle mass and causes the body to store fat. This is why I recommend doing LESS if you want to look and most importantly FEEL better, especially in the first couple of months postpartum. You want to slowly build your intensity back up. Check out my blog post on How to Ease Back Into Exercise Postpartum for more information on that topic.

My goal here is to help women understand that our bodies need rest and recovery above all else after childbirth and we need a slow and steady progression (back) into exercising. As a personal trainer with a dozen of years of experience in the fitness industry, I see women in general under eating and over exercising all of the time which only makes things worse! Add in crazy postpartum hormones, lack of sleep, a very physically and emotionally demanding job as a new mother and you’ve got a recipe for disaster!

So, here are a few things you can focus on postpartum for a faster recovery and to help you towards a healthy and happy mind, body and soul.

EAT: That’s right, eat as much as you need to. I’m not saying to go and stuff your face with pizza and junk food all day but it is soooo important to be eating ENOUGH food to fuel your body properly. If you are breastfeeding, you need to take into consideration that you need to consume an extra 500 calories per day on average. As a new mom, it can be easy to forget to eat a meal because you’re too busy putting the needs of your baby before your own. However, if you’re not fuelling your body properly and getting in enough calories, you’re going to feel even more drained, increase cortisol levels even higher which could potentially make it even harder to lose baby weight and cause you to store additional fat. I recommend a balanced diet of carbs, fats and proteins, 3 meals/day and 1-3 snacks throughout the day in between meals. Eat clean, whole foods as much as possible and avoid packaged and processed foods. Meal prep and plan all 7 days of the week (don’t forget weekends)! This is a great way to set yourself up for success. If you find you’re too busy to do the whole meal prep thing at this time in your life, consider a meal prep service such as www.vittle.ca I’ve been enjoying their services for the last few years during everything from competition preps, throughout my pregnancy and now postpartum. It’s a sure way to ensure you are eating enough and eating properly. Their meals are nutritious, balanced and always varied! They deliver meals fresh to your door from Sunday to Thursday (or based on your specific request) and can accommodate any dietary restrictions. If you’re thinking of trying this service out, I have great news! Get 10% off your first week at www.vittle.ca with my promo code JESS10 – I also do monthly giveaways on my personal Instagram page instagram.com/jessichiarello

DRINK: I’m not talking coffee or wine although those are highly recommend if needed as well haha but H20! and lots of it. The more hydrated you are, the better you will feel. I could go on and list all of the benefits that proper hydration has for your body composition, energy levels, skin/hair/nails etc.. but I’m sure you’ve heard them by now. I like to use the analogy of the fresh plum and a shrivelled up prune, which one would you like to be? I recommend 2.5-3 litres minimum/day and at least 4-5 litres + for breastfeeding mamas!


This can be anything from getting your hair or nails done, a massage, walk around the block, some time out with the girls sans bébé or a nice warm bath. You deserve time to yourself and it’s not only good for you but for the babes too!


I like to stretch when my baby is down on the mat playing or doing tummy time. Be sure to choose stretches that target the major muscles of the lower body: glutes, hips and hamstrings as well as those tight upper traps.

Rolling muscles with a foam roller or yoga tune up or lacrosse ball is also a very effective way to address knots and tight muscles.

You could try some light yoga. Postnatal yoga is always a good start or try some yin yoga which focuses on holding postures for 3-5 minutes and is much less intense. Avoid power yoga and core focused classes which may be too much for your body especially if you have any diastasis recti (abdominal separation caused by pregnancy – about 60% of women suffer from this postpartum). Focus on strengthening your core, specifically the deep core muscles (TVA) and pelvic floor during and after pregnancy to avoid this! As for hitting the gym, I would take your time lifting anything too heavy until everything is fully recovered which is typically anywhere from 4-8 weeks. High impact exercises such as running are not usually not recommended until about 6 months postpartum but you can get assessed by a pelvic floor therapist to confirm this based on your personal situation downstairs.


Mediation is the art of being present. It seems pretty simple but it’s actually a lot harder than it sounds (for me anyway). To shut the brain off and just BE can be quite challenging. You have to tune out the outside world, turn off your inner voice that is constantly worrying about every little thing and try to notice all of your five senses for the ultimate sense of relaxation. It can be as simple as sitting in silence and focusing on your breathing or laying down, closing your eyes and noticing every part of your body starting from your toes and slowly making your way up to the crown of your head. I recently went to a class at thepeaceroom.com for the first time and it was so wonderful. If you have trouble sitting in silence, try journaling and writing down your thoughts as another form of meditation.

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Instead of rushing to get back to the gym and hit the weights or treadmill, try practicing some of these simple self care techniques. Give yourself the well deserved rest and relaxation your body needs postpartum. Many women feel a lot of pressure to lose the baby weight and just bounce right back to their pre baby bods. Unfortunately, it’s not that simple in most cases. There are many factors that affect this such as where you started from before you became pregnant, if you were able to exercise during pregnancy, genetics, hormones, whether or not you’re breastfeeding and of course your nutritional habits above all else. One thing I know for sure is if you are following the above mentioned tips, it’ more than likely going to help you lose weight faster and more naturally than extreme measures that could be more detrimental to your overall health than anything. Slow down and take care of yourself mamas!

Thanks for reading!